I've been away awhile, and in the spirit of honesty in which I created this page, I'll tell you why:
I wasn't sure that I had any "right" to tell people what to do.
Let me put that better...I wasn't sure what qualifications I had in this area, other than being in pain. I wondered if people would care, too...I quess it was all self-doubt.
I'll enlarge upon this as I go along, but I think, for now, I'll leave it like this: please feel free to respond to my page if you want. It's the only way I'll know if I'm hitting the mark, or I'm failing.
I'll be writing more this afternoon.